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I am not like others that you will or have met in the life style. My philosophies and practices stem from a point of view that is based on healing and spirituality, not religion and anger. I am not a man hating female out to avenge my pain on my clients. I believe that one can have a beautiful, beneficial, spiritual experience that will awaken ones inner being through bdsm and communication.

We all need, want, and desire, human touch; be that touch is used to comfort the mind, body, and soul or to release emotions held in bondage within us. I use sensation and pain to accomplish this in myself as well as others. We all have self esteem difficulties, I believe we all need to hear words that edify who we are. Some times harsh authoritative direction is needed to steer a person in the right direction. We all need to take a vacation from life for a few moments playing a role to release tension and free ones self from the pressures of life. We have all suffered pain in our lives that has shaped us into who we are.

I am a survivor of such. Because I am, I am able to help others recover from theirs. Through bdsm I have learned to trust, healed damaged emotions and learned to live a richer fuller life. I have learned how to be a better wife, mate and companion to myself and others. This lifestyle has been very healing. If I can assist others in learning to do this then I have accomplished my job. The benefits I have found to be far reaching not just in my own life but those who I work with and the lives they touch.

Bdsm for me is a lifestyle some thing. I live 24/7 a way of life with many facets. Bondage is an art form, a dance between players orchestrated by the Dominant. Through this art form I am able to create images, pleasing to the mind uplifting to the spirit. I am a teacher and the student.